Updates tailscale/corp#18724
When localAPI clients directly set ExitNodeID to "", the expected behaviour is that the prior exit node also gets zero'd - effectively setting the UI state back to 'no exit node was ever selected'
The IntenalExitNodePrior has been changed to be a non-opaque type, as it is read by the UI to render the users last selected exit node, and must be concrete. Future-us can either break this, or deprecate it and replace it with something more interesting.
Signed-off-by: Jonathan Nobels <jonathan@tailscale.com>