Ensure _run_defer() fully executes at least once before shutdown

Without this, it's possible for Waker to be start_received() after the
shutdown signal has already been sent, resulting in 5 second delay
during shutdown.

Additionally mask EBADF during os.write() to waker's write side.
Necessary since nothing synchronizes writer threads from the broker
thread during shutdown. Could be done with a lock instead, but this is
cheaper.

mitogen/core.py

@@ -744,15 +744,18 @@ class Waker(BasicStream):
         Nothing is written if the current thread is the IO multiplexer thread.
         """
         IOLOG.debug('%r.wake() [fd=%r]', self, self.transmit_side.fd)
-        if threading.currentThread() != self._broker._thread and \
+        if threading.currentThread() != self._broker._thread:
-           self.transmit_side.fd:
+            try:
-            os.write(self.transmit_side.fd, ' ')
+                self.transmit_side.write(' ')
+            except OSError, e:
+                if e[0] != errno.EBADF:
+                    raise
 
     def on_receive(self, broker):
         """
         Read a byte from the self-pipe.
         """
-        os.read(self.receive_side.fd, 256)
+        self.receive_side.read(256)
 
 
 class IoLogger(BasicStream):
@@ -1003,6 +1006,7 @@ class Broker(object):
             while self._alive:
                 self._loop_once()
 
+            self._run_defer()
             fire(self, 'shutdown')
 
             for side in self._readers | self._writers: