Do not require wheel for building (#85533)

* Do not require wheel for building

- current version of setuptools (70.1+) does not need wheel at all
- older versions of setuptools would fetch wheel when building wheels (but not sdists)

* Pin setuptools to a version not requiring wheel

Now when we don't list wheel,
we are unable to pin it to a particular version.

Instead, use setuptools version that no longer uses it.

pyproject.toml

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 [build-system]
-requires = ["setuptools >= 66.1.0, <= 80.3.1", "wheel == 0.45.1"]  # lower bound to support controller Python versions, upper bound for latest version tested at release
+requires = ["setuptools >= 70.1, <= 80.3.1"]  # lower bound to support controller Python versions, upper bound for latest version tested at release
 build-backend = "setuptools.build_meta"
 
 [project]