Currently, (*LocalBackend).pickNewAutoExitNode() is just a wrapper around
setAutoExitNodeIDLockedOnEntry that sends a prefs-change notification at the end.
It doesn't need to do that, since setPrefsLockedOnEntry already sends the notification
(setAutoExitNodeIDLockedOnEntry calls it via editPrefsLockedOnEntry).
This PR removes the old pickNewAutoExitNode function and renames
setAutoExitNodeIDLockedOnEntry to pickNewAutoExitNode for clarity.
Updates tailscale/corp#29969
Signed-off-by: Nick Khyl <nickk@tailscale.com>