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+# MSC3759: Leave event metadata for deactivated users
+
+When a user is deactivated on Matrix, some homeservers choose to remove that user from all the rooms
+they are joined to. This isn't strictly part of the Matrix spec, but nonetheless major implementations
+like Synapse do so. However to other users in the room, it is not clear whether an account is deactivated
+or just leaving the room, and this causes some significant problems.
+
+Bridges are usually designed to interpret leave event from a user as a specific instruction to leave
+a remote room. For instance, a user leaving a room bridged to WhatsApp is usually interpreted as the
+user wanting to leave the remote side. However when the user **deactivates** their account, services
+aren't able to distinguish the intent of the leave as an automated account cleanup actions, rather than
+a request to leave all remote bridged rooms. This lack of clarity leads to users finding themselves
+completely parted from all their remote contacts, which is certainly not great.
+
+Therefore, this proposal suggests that leave events sent on behalf of a deactivation should include
+some metadata to state the source of the leave.
+
+## Proposal
+
+Any `m.room.member` event, sent to a room with a `membership` of `leave` on behalf of a deactivation
+should include a new boolean field.
+
+`"m.deactivated": true`
+
+which would be part of the membership content.
+
+```json5
+{
+  "content": {
+    // N.B this assumes that displayname and avatar_url are removed for privacy reasons during a
+    // deactivation
+    "membership": "leave",
+    "m.deactivated": true,
+  },
+  "event_id": "$143273582443PhrSn:example.org",
+  "origin_server_ts": 1432735824653,
+  "room_id": "!jEsUZKDJdhlrceRyVU:example.org",
+  "sender": "@example:example.org",
+  "state_key": "@alice:example.org",
+  "type": "m.room.member",
+  "unsigned": {
+    "age": 1234
+  }
+}
+```
+
+Services and clients that see this key can assume that the user is no longer using Matrix and can therefore
+start cleaning up any connected metadata/cached information about the user.
+
+This key MUST only be treated as valid if the `sender` and the `state_key` match. If the event is instead
+a kick, the key MUST be ignored.
+
+## Potential issues
+
+Adding a metadata key to leave events means that all users who shared a room with this user would be able
+to tell that the user requested a deactivation, rather than just leaving a room. While this does give
+away more information about the user, it would also allow any connected service as well as clients to remove
+any information. This means that by virtue of including this key, more services can perform erase of a user
+from their datastores.
+
+It should be noted, like anything else in a Matrix event, that the key could be sent manually by a user
+to "fake their own death". Services MUST not trust this key for actions where identifying the
+deactivated status of a user is critical, but where it may only inconvience the user (such as deleting some
+bridge configuration) it is satisfactory enough.
+
+## Alternatives
+
+[MSC3720](https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-spec-proposals/pull/3720) would help in solving this problem,
+as services could lookup the status of a user when a leave event comes in and determine the deactivated
+status. However this comes with two notable drawbacks:
+
+1. The service would have to poll this endpoint upon *every* leave, which would likely cause more load
+   on the homeserver and the service requesting the information. This could be made event worse if the
+   endpoint was ratelimited.
+2. If there was any chance of a race between the leave event being sent and the response of this endpoint
+   confirming, then there could be a chance of data-loss for bridged users. 
+
+
+## Security considerations
+
+None at this time.
+
+## Unstable prefix
+
+`org.matrix.msc3759.deactivated` should be used instead of `m.deactivated` while this proposal is in review.
+
+## Dependencies
+
+None.
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